#Lettuce Forgive


It is easy to hold onto the pain and the offense of actions, words or circumstances that negatively impact us.


It is a natural psychology to think that if I hold the ill feelings toward someone that either:


A. We make them suffer in return for what they’ve done.


OR


B. We are justified for our feelings and letting those feelings go, let’s them off the hook.


But the fact of the matter is, when you don’t forgive, it is not impacting the other person more than it is impacting you.


So, #lettuce forgive.


Forgiveness is not about the other person. Forgiveness is about you.

When you forgive, you releasing the negative feelings about a matter for positive feelings about the matter to come which can include: